| Life is full of many contradictions. It seems like one great paradox. You can’t quite understand why things happen they way they do. Often, you seem to have done all the right things, but your results show otherwise. Can you relate to that?
However, it is said that if you live long enough and search (or observe) hard enough, you will find a miraculous order to all the chaos and confusion we experience.
Perhaps you don’t realise that you can tap into your unlimited potential and be justly enriched when you combine a greater understanding of yourself with specific efforts towards excellence.
My Greatest Discovery:
My greatest revelation was that there are just two fundamental truths that determine one’s ‘Prosperity’ in life and that is, Prosperity is the direct result of ‘Growing’ and ‘Contributing’. So, let’s take a closer look at these two fundamental truths that govern the extent of our prosperity.
- Growing: Simply, this means that
your life gets better as you get better. In other words, your
life will improve only to the extent that you improve as a person,
especially as you evolve and grow in your level of consciousness.
You have what you have today because of who you are. You can have
more because you can become more - more knowledgeable,
more informed, more skilled, more service-oriented, more humble,
more compassionate, more loving, etc. Effectively, you need to
become a different person.
- Contributing: True prosperity
(i.e. wealth, success and happiness) comes from creating value
for others. In other words, your prosperity it is directly related
to your contribution to society as a whole. In simple monetary
terms, this means that what you earn today is directly in proportion
to the value of your services to others. However, this does not
mean that you are not a capable or competent person who should
be paid more for what you do for a living. Perhaps the reason
why you are not being paid what you believe you are worth is that
you are constrained by your current environment. However, what
is does mean is that if you want more money, you would have to
find ways for creating more value, for more people, in more places.
Having benefited greatly from understanding
these two truths about life and success, I developed a complete
package of components to help people develop into the best they
can be so that they can enjoy a more enriched and fulfilling life.
The following diagram (Figure 1) illustrates these two truths and
how they affect one’s prosperity.
Figure 1
This is a simple line graph showing ‘Growth
and Contribution’ on the X-axis and ‘Prosperity’
on the Y-axis. The curved line is the learning curve, which I choose
to call ‘Success Continuum’ because there is literally
no end to how much one can learn. It is widely accepted that ‘the
more you learn, the more you earn’, hence the monetary amounts
shown on the Y-axis e.g. 100K reflects $100,000. However, it is important to
understand that Prosperity is not limited to money alone. There
are many factors that contribute to one’s ultimate Prosperity.
I use money in the above diagram because it is what most people
associate with as being prosperous.
Let’s examine the diagram more closely.
Let's assume that you are currently maximised at a certain level of
Prosperity, say 100K. You cannot improve your life without improving yourself i.e. you need to move up the 'success continuum'.
In simple monetary terms, the above diagram shows that your income
will grow only to the extent that you evolve as a person in terms
of developing new skills and abilities, new attitudes, new beliefs
and new behaviours. In a nutshell Prosperity is the direct result
of one’s personal Growth plus one's Contribution to society.
In the above example, there is a gap between where
you are (let’s say 100K) and where you want to be (i.e.
300K). You need to examine this gap very consciously and then decide
what you need to do to bridge the gap. If you do proper due diligence,
you will find that the most effective way to bridge that gap is
to develop further as a person and provide valuable service to others.
This means that you would probably need to learn and practice something
new and different; you would need to develop new skills and behaviours;
you would need to apply new ideas and strategies.
As a Business Analyst / Project Manager I earned an above average income, but my lifestyle
did not leave me with much extra cash to save for a
comfortably retirement.
I have learnt that even a good pay cheque is generally not the way to financial freedom, and my goal was to be financially free by age 65, if not sooner. However, for me to earn significantly more, like doubling or trebling my income, I needed to make some drastic changes in my life. Also,
I became aware that I was working in a shrinking industry
with many functions being ‘eaten-up’ by technology,
or being ‘outsourced’, or sent offshore. All indications
were that I would eventually be made redundant. I
realised that if I wanted a different future, I would have to do something different. I had a choice: change direction, or face financial hardship because there was going to be no improvement without change. Change
meant giving up my status and the position which took more than
20 years of hard work and study to achieve, and then to embrace
something new and unfamiliar with no guarantee of success.
I did some research and identified where the major
economic growth was taking place. Over a three year period I made
the transition to the fledgling new industry of “Intellect Marketing” and, as a result, significantly enhanced my
income. Not only did I enhance my income, but that income is residual
– it continues to flow even when I am not working!. I made a conscious decision
to change and today I own my life - I have complete autonomy.
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